#49: Take It or Leave It
A weekly drop of things I love
Take It or Leave It is a weekly highlight series for paid subscribers. Pretty much every Friday, I share a quick hit of things I’m loving.
Most of my writing is long-form and requires time for research between essays. Hopefully, this helps fill in the gaps for you with new finds (or things you want to revisit).
If not, all good. Take it or leave it ✌️
Some birthday week reminders 🥳
Earlier this week, I turned 30. To celebrate this milestone birthday, I made a list of 30 songs that carried me to 30 and wrote a little about each one. My very talented (and generous!) friend Sadie Burzan designed the header image, and it’s the coolest thing anyone has ever made for my writing. Click below to read the whole thing & listen to the playlist:
30 Songs That Made Me *Me*
Today, I turn 30 years old. It’s a gift to have been here for as long as I have, and I hope I’m with you for many more years to come. I don’t get to this point without the people, things, and moments that have carried me here—music being one of those shelters where I’ve sought safety and …
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